The parents who bring their children to Freely Living often
feel stuck and at a loss. They may not understand why their child is having
such a hard time. Many parents have tried to reassure their child countless
times. Some have worked hard to help their child do seemingly silly things that
the child swears are necessary, only to find these patterns more ingrained.

When children arrive to therapy, they often feel ready for
something different. While ready, they are equally terrified of giving up the
behaviors and habits they feel keep them safe or comfortable. They are sick of
doing things that get in the way of school. They hate that their fears affect
their hobbies and friendships. They are bogged down by others who are
frustrated with their behaviors.

These fears and discomforts disrupt the child’s ability to
live freely. They get in the way of moving onto the next thing and engaging
fully in their most valued moments. Parents feel frustrated, scared, and
helpless. They are bothered by these unwelcome fears and not being able to help
their child get over them.

Like many who have come before you, you deserve hope. Your
child deserves to live freely every day and to engage in life’s meaningful
moments.

Learning to respond to these fears, anxieties, and
discomforts in a new way takes practice and hard work. With that hard work,
change is possible and can lead to the daily choice to live according to ones
own voice and values. Your child can learn how to de-tangle themselves from
these fears.